Frequently Asked Questions

Matchmaking by Dr. Lida is a boutique matchmaking and dating coaching service for relationship-ready professionals who want a more intentional approach to dating and partnership.

Instead of relying on algorithms or endless swiping, Dr. Lida takes the time to understand each client beyond surface-level preferences. Her approach considers values, lifestyle, communication, relationship goals, interpersonal dynamics, attraction, and long-term compatibility to create thoughtful, curated introductions.

Working with a matchmaker replaces much of the searching, screening, and uncertainty of dating apps with a more personalized and intentional process.

Dr. Lida gets to know each matchmaking client, searches for potentially aligned partners, meets with potential matches virtually, evaluates compatibility, and thoughtfully facilitates introductions.

Matchmaking clients also receive personalized guidance before and after dates, feedback from both people, and structured follow-up to help them understand how each connection is unfolding.

The goal isn't simply to meet more people. It's to create better opportunities to meet people who may genuinely align with what you're looking for.

Dr. Lida works with single men and women ages 25–80 who are relationship-minded, professionally established, financially secure, and interested in a more intentional and personalized path to partnership.

Many clients are based in Washington, DC and Northern Virginia, and Dr. Lida also works with select clients in other major cities nationwide when the search is appropriate and feasible.

She also works with professional neurodivergent singles and individuals from multicultural backgrounds. Every search is personalized around the individual's values, lifestyle, communication style, relationship goals, and vision for a compatible partnership.

The matchmaking process begins with a paid 60-minute Match Discovery Call, where Dr. Lida learns more about your dating and relationship history, current challenges, relationship goals, and what you're looking for in a partner.

For those who move forward with matchmaking, the process becomes increasingly personalized. Dr. Lida develops a deeper understanding of who you are and what compatibility looks like for you, searches for potentially aligned partners, meets with potential matches virtually, and then facilitates introductions.

Matchmaking clients also receive ongoing guidance, post-date feedback, and support throughout the process.

Compatibility goes far beyond checking boxes on a list.

Dr. Lida considers factors such as values, relationship patterns, communication style, emotional availability, family goals, lifestyle, attraction, long-term vision, and how each person connects with others.

Her background as a Relationship and Sex Therapist brings an additional layer of insight to the matchmaking process, allowing her to look beyond basic demographics and preferences when considering whether two people may have the potential for a meaningful connection.

The Complimentary Singles Database is a confidential network of relationship-ready singles who may be considered as potential introductions for Dr. Lida's paid matchmaking clients.

Singles Database members are not matchmaking clients, and Dr. Lida does not conduct an active search on their behalf. Instead, being part of the database allows her to consider you when your background, relationship goals, and preferences may align with what a current matchmaking client is seeking.

Joining the Singles Database does not guarantee an introduction or match.

Yes. A paid 60-minute Match Discovery Call is required before joining the Complimentary Singles Database.

An online profile provides helpful basic information, but it doesn't give Dr. Lida enough insight to thoroughly consider whether you may align with a current or future matchmaking client.

During the Match Discovery Call, Dr. Lida learns more about your relationship history, interpersonal dynamics, values, lifestyle preferences, relationship goals, and vision for a compatible partner. This allows her to get to know you beyond a profile before considering you for potential introductions.

Completing a Match Discovery Call and joining the Singles Database does not guarantee that you will be introduced to a matchmaking client.

Singles Database members may be considered as potential introductions for Dr. Lida's matchmaking clients, but Dr. Lida does not actively search for partners on their behalf.

Matchmaking Clients receive a fully guided, personalized search. Dr. Lida proactively searches for potentially aligned partners, meets with potential matches virtually, facilitates introductions, and provides ongoing guidance and feedback throughout the process.

Put simply: Singles Database members may be considered for someone else's search; Matchmaking Clients have a personalized search conducted on their behalf.

Matchmaking pricing varies based on the scope of the search, your criteria, and the level of guidance and involvement included.

Each search requires significant behind-the-scenes work, including sourcing potential matches, screening, virtual meetings, curated introductions, feedback, coaching, and ongoing support.

The Match Discovery Call provides an opportunity to discuss your goals, learn more about the available options, and determine which service, if any, may be the right fit for what you're looking for.

No. Human connection, chemistry, and relationship outcomes cannot be guaranteed.

What Dr. Lida provides is a thoughtful, structured, and highly personalized process designed to create opportunities for meaningful connection through intentional introductions, careful consideration of compatibility, and ongoing guidance.

Every matchmaking search is different, and the timeline depends on factors such as your preferences, criteria, location, and the availability of potentially aligned singles.

Most clients work with Dr. Lida over several months as she gets to know them, conducts the search, facilitates introductions, and provides support throughout the dating process.

Yes. Dr. Lida works with clients in the Washington, DC and Northern Virginia area as well as select clients in other major cities across the nation.

Whether a particular search is feasible depends on factors such as your location, preferences, criteria, and the scope of the search. These details can be discussed during your Match Discovery Call.

Dating Coaching provides personalized, non-clinical guidance for people who want greater clarity, confidence, and intention in their dating lives.

Sessions may focus on dating patterns, communication, boundaries, emotional readiness, relationship goals, decision-making, or real-time situations that come up while dating.

The primary difference is that Dating Coaching does not include an active search for potential partners.

Matchmaking helps you identify and meet potential partners; Dating Coaching helps you navigate your own dating life with greater insight and direction.